tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-266390992012-01-29T15:01:25.925-08:00The love of a family is lifes greatest blessing.Momto16http://www.blogger.com/profile/02209044048232703879noreply@blogger.comBlogger12021100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26639099.post-13392828332868670612012-01-26T12:01:00.000-08:002012-01-26T12:01:14.946-08:00

Dear Isabella, Yesterday was your first birthday. It was such a special day that we had looked forward to for weeks now. You started the morning with a long snuggle in bed with dad and I (and your doting brother Jude.) In the morning we went to the gym and you played in the playroom. Then we came home and you had lunch and the kids had early release from school so everyone was home in early. In

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Last year, exactly one year ago from this exact moment... my entire life changed. As I was going through a rough last few weeks of pregnancy my mentally ill daughters feelings and emotions were escalating. And the night before I was going in to have a c-section and deliver my baby, my ill teen daughter made allegations against my husband. Last year, exactly one year ago from this exact moment...

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It started snowing about a week ago. Since that time life has been at a standstill. When it snows here in the low lands of the Pacific Northwest they are never prepared. It isn't like getting a big snow in Ohio where they have the roads salted and cleared within 24 hours. Here life just stops. School has been canceled all week. Everyone has cabin fever despite the fact that we braved the roads

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Before I start the birthday post...I wanted to give an update on my cousin Maggie.Maggie had surgery to get a trach for her vent. She was able to breathe on her own for three hours but her breathing is very labored. She is having a hard time coughing so she needs to be suctioned a lot. It is very good news and a huge answer to prayer that she was able to breathe for three hours off the vent.

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My cousin still needs your prayers. Today they found some blood clots and there is discussion going on how to handle them. They have put in a filter to help with these. They are doing testing to see if Maggie will be able to be off the ventilator anytime soon. Please keep praying that this is possible. A bullet shattered her C5. That can have dire consequences. Functionally her brain is working

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Please continue to pray for my niece Maggie and her beautiful family. She suffered terrible gunshot wounds including one to the neck that has left her with significant medical needs. She is currently on a ventilator and we would appreciate your prayers for healing. We are pleased to share that she has been upgraded to stable condition. It would truly be a miracle for her to be able to breathe on

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Please pray for my cousin Maggie who was shot last night when leaving work. She is in critical condition. News story HERE.

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Ben (Leishans guy on the far left) brought over a wig to show his support of Justin Bieber and the hairstyles of David and Cole. He fits in far too well with our silly family and of course the boys got a kick out of it! Thanks for making us smile Ben!

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 The final Christmas post! Whoohoo! We were truly blessed this year by special gifts from "Santa". We have wanted a "roller board"for AJ and Jude for a long time.Its not only fun but helps them with balance.(Jude above is riding it to get his stocking.) Santa always hides the stockings at our house.  Izzy was so sleepy but thoughtit was really fun to open gifts!  Jude got a new race car from Nana

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 So during the breakfast with Santa...David, Cole, Grace and Dominick (and Cheyenne- Graces friend)were all with our friends at the SBA getting things ready and set upfor the annual Holiday party.  We try our best when we have out of town activities to maximize our timewith back to back excitement! lol I was really thankful that our SB groupallowed the older kids to help outbecause it gave them

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In December we were invited by the StarlightFoundation to Breakfast with Santa.My hubby and I attendedwith the younger children:Alyssa, Isaac, AngelinaJude and Izzy.  It was truly a fabulous and fancy time.They had a great breakfast for us all.Then special Christmas prizes for all thechildren. Then they had pictures with Santa and Mrs. Claus. Jude was determined that he wasn't going ANYWHERE

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(Adorable Christmas pictures coming soon!) I wanted to let you all know that TODAY I did it. I completed my 500 miles at the gym this morning. I have been working for the past few months on reaching the 500 mile goal for a fundraiser for the ETAAM retreat that is in March. I am super proud! I have been so looking forward to the retreat. The time away with other Moms (and several of my close

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So far so good.Sophie has been able to keep it togetherfor a few days. We still feel relief-and blessed- that she was honestabout all her allegations. Yes- she had kept the lies goingand getting bigger and biggerfor 11 months.For 11 months we didn't knowif she "realized" she was lying.Or if she was delusional.We had many therapists and professionalsevaluate her. And none could agree if shewas

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Yesterday at therapy our daughter had a breakthrough. The attachment therapist was challenging her illogical thinking and she blurted it out... "none of its true! Its all lies! I don't want to lie anymore!" Then she explained to the therapist and the therapist helped her understand her feelings... she didn't get love like Izzy does. She never had attachment as a baby and she wants to do

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 So its not all RAD drama around here. From November 18-December 25 we have a busy family with lots of celebration. Here are some pictures from Jude's 3rd birthday and Cole's 15th birthday. We had a joint celebration once the three kids got home from California so they could enjoy the big, huge chocolate cake too.  Then we have my birthday, Tyler's birthday, mine and hubs anniversary, Graces

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1.Do you like music on blogs? (I get comments sometimes about people who love the music but others it really annoys. I have been thinking of turning it off, let me know how you feel.) 2.If you have disrupted an adoption... do you ever "get past" the anger, sadness, guilt? Is there any healing for you as a parent and for your other children? 3.If you have been in a situation like ours (where

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These days are filled with love. The kind of love that lingers on like sweet baby kisses. These days are filled with cookie baking, package wrapping, and gift giving. These days are filled with heartache and woes. With prayer on our knees for better days ahead. For finding hope once again, or for being able to move on FREE from burdens. These days are filled

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I have gone MIA again! High: Had a wonderful three nights away with the man of my dreams and my best friend in the whole world. (And her beau and two of our kids too!) Low: While we were away the drama continued with RAD and with one of the other kids having some major issues. It definitely put a damper on the trip and felt like a black cloud hanging over us knowing we were going to have to go

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I have a few coupon codes for FREE custom photo calendars from shutterfly and a few freebie codes for 15 Holiday cards. Any takers? First come first served. Email me at sisters3designs@aol.com I will update the post when they are gone. Offer is good until 12/15. So hurry!

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Today its my birthday. I am 38 years young. I am still sick. Last night I woke up and have never experienced swelling in my lymph notes that I did at 3am. My entire neck was stiff and sore and my throat on fire. After a week of feeling better, feeling worse, feeling horrible, I knew that it was time to go to the doctor. I had lost my insurance after Izzy was born and had to buy new insurance,

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I am supposed to be making phone calls that have been waiting during the long weekend and each and every place that I call I am either put on hold or I get a message that says "all circuits are busy now." Why can't everywhere be on text? It sure would make things much faster than trying to make phone calls over and over again. I am thankful that my three children had a fantastic trip to Northern

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I think that the emotional toll of the last week has caught up with me physically. I am sick. Miserable. We took off on Wednesday with five of the kids for the hot springs. Jude went to stay with his favorite big sister Lauren for the night. He would rather stay with Lauren and her beau Matt then go to the hot springs. (That's how much he adores them both.) My sister and her family met us there

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There are some things that you have done that I thought would be unforgivable and today- this might be one of them. Haven't we learned yet that making false allegations against people doesn't really do any good? That it really doesn't get us much more than a little extra attention? And that it certainly isn't something that is going to get us home? Tomorrow is a meeting about what is going to

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OK its time for a mass update on everyone and everything 1. Izzy is BUSY. Getting into everything, crawling all over, pulling herself to standing. 2. AJ has a big urodynamic test this week and she is worried about it. She is having another UTA and we can't seem to stop them from coming over and over. The doctors feel that her bladder pressures have changed and we might need to start using a

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I just wanted to thank you all for your kind comments and letting me know that your still reading, even if you aren't commenting. I also agree that social media has taken over blogging- but to me- I just can't get in the groove of the status updates being quite the same as a blog. Its just not my thing although I do love reading all my face book friends updates- I always long for more details. (I

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I am trying to remember why I started blogging in the first place. (For ME.) And because I am not good at keeping up with scrapbooks. This is the way that I keep track of how much my children grow year to year. Lately the blogging world seems to be pretty hum drum. Anyone else feeling the same way? I know that I haven't been blogging much and my comments reflect that. On my last post for the

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Have you been thinking about your holiday cards this year? Do you often procrastinate until the last minute and then don't bother sending any out? This year- don't let that happen! I have some hints, tricks and tips to share with you so that you too, can be on top of your Holiday cards this year. Have you tried Shutterfly? OK so maybe you have tried Shutterfly for prints before, did you know

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7am woke up rolled Izzy off of me surrounded her with pillows so she can't fall off the bed took medicine drank some water checked email on my phone got dressed washed face, brushed teeth big kids off to school Isaac and Jude watching cartoons 7:30am took the dog out cracked open some caffeine put on my socks sent Isaac to wake up Dom woke up AJ and Lulu cleaned up kitchen 8am cath and potty AJ

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I figured that I had better get the pictures from last weekend up because we have been so busy with fun things and lots of picture taking lately!Isaac was Hiccup from "How to Train a Dragon." That happens to be one of his most favorite movies. (And mine too- it's super cute if you haven't seen it- you should!) Grace was Alice in Wonderland. And Jude was "Plex" the Robot from Yo Gabba Gabba. (

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Baby Due in December I am requesting information regarding families in the Houston, Texas/Southeast Texas vicinity who may be open to adopting an unborn baby boy (due date in mid December) with antenatal dx of Spina Bifida and Hydrocephalus. The baby will likely remain in the hospital for an extended period of time after birth and require total care after discharge. Thank you for your

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 Angeline and Nintendo's Princess Peach at Trick or Suite Yesterday was a la la la long day at Childrens Hospital.By 9am- Jude had an MRI, Ultrasound, and five of us had flu shots.That is what I call a productive morning. We met with the urologist for both AJ and Jude. AJ has been having more issues with UTI's lately. And that means that her bladder pressures must have changed and

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We had an amazing weekend. The whole family went down to Seattle where we attended the Trick or Suite event put on by the Starlight Foundation. The Starlight foundation does lots of exciting things. They provide toys and play room "stuff" for children's hospitals and they also do something called "Great Escapes". We are a new family to the Starlight Foundation

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I am truly humbled by your thoughtful generosity. Since I posted the video (below) and request for people to help Angeline and Jude by adopting a ghost...180 ghosts have been adopted!!! Yipppeeeee!!!! We still have 7 more days to adopt out the rest of the ghosts. Our goal for this year is 300 ghosts. Would you mind sharing the video on facebook? For just $1, anyone can adopt a ghost and help

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I am really behind this year and I feel horrible about it. I should have done this 21 days ago. This is one of the biggest fundraisers for the Spina Bifida association and Angeline and Jude have participated over the past few years. If you want to view some of the old videos you can go HERE and HERE. (Wow have they grown!) Angeline and Jude are hoping to raise $300 this year. The money goes to

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Homecoming 2011Grace and her date "J" aboveWe had THREE kids going this year.Lauren was kind enough to come take pictures before dinner. Cole and his date "M"My kids are growing up way too fast.  David and his date "S"  Most of the parents came to take pictures. David thinks this picture makes them look like the Back St. Boys. I agree.  The girls all looked so beautiful. Several of these

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This week Leishan and I went on a field trip with the kindergarten class.Angeline and Isaac have the most amazing teacher.(She was also Dominick's teacher TWICE and we love her!) The kids got to see lots of animals, go on a hay ride, pick a pumpkin and have a picnic lunch. They also had a special educational session about apples!A fun day had by all. 

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 Last weekend we had an ice skating partyfor Lulu's 10th birthday. On Friday night her and I went shopping(with Aunt Nina and cousin Zoe) topick up some presents. Lulu picked out an adorable polka dot skirt,black leggings and tee to wear to her party.Bummer you can't see all the cuteness with the bigjacket on! She also chose some new jewelry at Claire's.And a little jewelry box.  Izzy is such a

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This week I was far too cheap to pay for school pictures.So we took them ourselves.No, Cole took the school pictures.Mom did the editing.Cole did a fantastic job and Mom didn't need to edit much.I was so thankful, my boy has skills.It helps that his younger siblings are so cute! :) I heard a friend tell her children"You choose your relationships"(This was in response to her children talking

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 Isabella's hair is getting really long.She is now getting her two front teeth so that makes SIX teeth to bite me with.She is starting to get a really cheeky personality. Izzy pretty much is always with me.And I like it.And she does too.Last night she caught the late night showing ofCourageouswith her dad and I and some friends.She was an absolute angel.She travels well.I am thankful! Lauren has

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I wish that all weekends were as fun as the last one was. It left me with a feeling of contentment like no other. It was FULL. Workouts with my hubby, parks with the kids, naps with the baby, swimming at the pool, getting organized and grocery filled for the week ahead, bills paid, enjoying one another and dinner out with friends. It filled me up- the whole

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 There is an adoption blog that has caused quite a stir in the past few days. I never got to read the post that caused the controversy but I did read this post of accusations against the family about the original post. Now that original post has been taken down, confusing huh?. There is often a lot of controversy in adoption especially when all the facts aren't known. The controversy had

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Please consider taking a moment to support Emily and her research. Research and education about attachment is VITAL. Also please feel free to cross post the information below and to contact Emily with any questions that you might have about her or the research she is doing. Thanks so much all! I am currently a doctoral candidate in clinical psychology, and I'm hoping to do my dissertation on

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 The morning started really early this morning at about 5am. My hubby and I, Izzy, Grace, Cole, Dominick, Alyssa and two of Graces friends (Chey and Natalie) headed out to meet Graces soccer team for the their biggest fundraiser.... a local marathon! This marathon helps to pay for scholarships for both the swim team and the select soccer team for lower income players. All of the families of the

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We had a fun time at the apple orchard last weekend. Its definitely one of our favorite family fall activities to do. I thought it would be a good time to get some new pictures of the kids. Apparently this day just wasn't our day. Well, they did turn out cute- just not what I had in mind. I will call the above picture "everybody is a star!" As you can see there are several family members who

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If you scroll to the bottom of this page you will see my "ticker" for my "Orlando 500 miles challenge." This past weekend I made it to 300 miles. :) I am super proud of me. Its been challenging to get to the gym with a crying toddler and baby in tow and to make this happen. And there are many days that I only get 2 miles in before one of them is in a full out meltdown and I have to come home

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 Izzy and her dashingly handsome big brother Cole I can't believe that my sweet tiny baby is almost 8 months old. She is scooting around a ton on the floor and starting to actually "get into things".Her favorite pastime is trying to eat paper and picking up little things on the ground that she shouldn't be touching!Izzy has also learned the "toddler broken back" technique. Where whenshe

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If you could stop by and vote for my blog right HERE. Its just one simple CLICK to vote- nothing to sign up for. Nothing to fill out. And I promise not to keep bugging you too much. Just vote here- once a day if you can. :) And if your not too tired after that click- you could stop by and vote for my dear friend Renees blog. She is in 2nd place right now and I would love to see her move into

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The week so far has gotten better for everyone.AJ is doing great at school and the mean boys shed tears when the teacher talked to them. Dominick felt much better about things and was really empowered for sticking up for his little sister and for doing the right thing. Even though these boys are his "friends" he never once worried about them being mad at him for telling. I am truly proud of him

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Jude, Alyssa, Isaac, Dominick and AJ  Today was the first day of school for Angeline and Isaac. They had two days last week of orientation where I went with them- but today was the first official full day of Kindy. I thought that I would be more nervous. Especially considering that I was at the school late on Friday afternoon and they still didn't know who was going to be Angeline's aide. The

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Today was a wonderful day.It was WISH DAY!Angelina's wish coordinators arrived this afternoon.They brought a gift for the family ofboard games and a "basket of treats".For Angelina they brought a Disney Princessdoll- Sleeping Beauty. A new nightgown andsome wonderful sticker paper dolls.What lovely surprises thathelped truly make the day so fun. One of her wish volunteers asked if the

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David and his new friend  A few weeks ago we attended the annualSpina Bifida summer picnic.(for our area)It is always so wonderful to see all the families.And this year it was super special becausethey had activities for the kids to dowhile the parents attended the "summit". Lulu and friends paint pots AJ's turn at the pinata! Dominick hits it hard. Even Jude takes a turn The

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My biopsy was today and today was the first day of school for most of my kiddos. I woke up early to start getting things ready. There were lunches to pack, hair to fix, diapers to change, babies to feed, Cinnamon rolls to bake (first day of school special), and so much excitement in the air! Not only was in the first day for David, Cole, Grace, Alyssa, and Dominick... but it was also kindergarten

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 Sorry I have been MIA. This has been a CRAZY week. It hasn't been that busy as far as appointments and such goes. It has been a milder week. But having Cole, Grace, Lulu out of town... and David working A TON has made my dear Dominick really have to step up as big brother and help out Mom with AJ, Jude, Isaac and Izzy.  My children have the best Aunts and Uncles. Cole and Lulu have been on a NW

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1. I went out with two friends for a short visit this evening and came home feeling like having a drink and a cigarette. And its been years since I had either one of those things. Not sure why I felt that way... maybe it was the silly conversation and laughs that took me back to my college days. Priceless. Love my fellow mommy friends. 2. Antibiotics gives children yeasty issues. Notable yeast

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I like this picture of Issac because he looks confused. And that's about how I feel about many things right now. Confused. Deep in thought. Trying to figure it all out. Ever feel that way? Heavy stuff going on in my mind. The kids are all great. I just feel heaviness. Maybe because school is starting soon. Maybe because summer was too short. Perhaps because of heavy situations for friends

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So its been a long week. Several get togethers with supportive loving mommy friends. Soccer games for daysss in Portland, Oregon. Sophies court hearing for her 90 day review. SI joint majorly messed up in my back ouch! School shopping for September. Sweet husband worked so hard we missed him while we were in Portland. Sophie and I spent a night in the ER because she is fainting. So many medical

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Ok Bloggy friends... Please read the information about the Auction below. This auction benefits Moms who desperately need the Orlando retreat but who otherwise wouldn't be able to afford to go. I copied this from Corey's Blog- please especially check out my two items that I donated which need BIDS. (A custom bracelet and a custom boutique portrait- that could also be used as a custom BLOG header!

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And more beach pictures of my sweet children.The sickies are on the mend.I think just about the entire house hasat least "a cough" right now.I am SO over it.My hubby has been off all weekfrom either illness or permit issues on the job.I am SO over it too.And SO ready to get back to normal life.With healthy children.And a healthy hubs.And feeling 100% myself.

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Sweet Isabella.This little dress was the first thing that I bought when I found out I was pregnant with you last summer. I must have known I was having a girl and that it would fit you perfectly one year later. I am so sorry that your sick again.Its a rough time for a wee baby in this house o' germs.Summer colds are no fun, especially those that turn into pneumonia. This week both you and your

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 Happy Birthday my 17 year oldDavey Boy. :) I was so happy to see you and your friendsat the beach, celebrating your birthday, and meeting your "crush".(Can you guess which young lady is his crush?) David is now 17 years oldand starting his first "real" jobat the Golden Arches where hisbig brother Danny is a manager and is his boss. We hope David loves his job SOmuch that he can't wait to

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Tonight Sophie texted me with this picture that she made. I adore when my children leave little "I love you" notes inside my day planner anonymously. :) Or when they write me letters. Or even when they have written LOVE in the dirt on the van windows.But to have your child with Reactive Attachment Disorder make a picture that says "Love is Real"- stopped me in my tracks and

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Today is Joys 7th Birthday. And to say "we miss her", doesn't adequately describe the feelings of loss that I have. I don't talk about Joy often because its just still too raw and painful. I feel so blessed for the year that we had together and I know 100% that Gods plan for Joy was to return to her previous family and find the rest of her healing with them. I

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I am such a proud mother. I am so proud of my children, they are all hard workers. I am especially proud of Grace. Not for this wild night "out on the town" (aka- renting a movie and having a sleepover) with her friends Cheyenne and Natalie. They are such silly girls with strong confident heads on their shoulders... I couldn't help but take a few pictures that I

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**Please note that names and events have been changed in this post to protect privacy** I have always wrestled with how much to share with my children about their pasts. I have always wanted to be able to be honest but to never make them feel as if they are damaged or if they have to be a product of their early trauma histories. I think in many ways I have held too much in and not shared enough.

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 As seen with my phone this week... Love is... Big brother Dominick singing to his grouchy baby sister Izzy. She loves her big brothers- especially when they sing to her. Love is Licking the beaterand making cookies with Mom(butterscotch oatmeal yum) Love is... Isaac visiting the dentist and not having any cavities! Yeah Issac. Love this boy and his honesty... he shows me lots of wrinkle cream

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The week so far has brought many good things. Regarding AJ. We have answers! Her feet are swollen because she has stress fractures. Apparently the x-ray at the doctors office isn't up to par with the one down at the children's hospital.. because they didn't see the stress fractures here. But we have gotten her AFO's "blown out" to fit over her swollen feet and we expect it to take six weeks or

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On this day I am feeling a little lost and confused. I am sad and wondering why I let so much of my life and the lives of my children be wasted by one child's trauma and drama. Yet I find myself with another child facing similar behaviors. Perhaps its because this sibling didn't get attention during those years of dealing with Sophie and now he feels that he needs to monopolize all the negative

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The week so far has been wild. WILD. Busy wild. Worrisome and anxiety provoking. Fun and Exciting. Its always a roller coaster around here. Izzy is biting. And she is biting HARD. I am trying to get her to stop grabbing onto my n*pple with her sharp little two bottom teeth and pulling her head backwards by telling her "No biting" and then giving her a little break from nursing.

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Please pray for AJShe woke up this morning with terriblyswollen feet. She ended her last serial casting 10 days ago. (not sure why these won't load all the way, sorry!) We immediately went from her appointmentat the orthopedic surgeon to the orthotics placeto have her AFO's (orthotics) refitted.They also made new molds for her to getnew AFO's... but of course we are awaitinginsurance approval

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 I had every intention of sitting down and writing several great blog posts this week about "life" but of course I got caught up in "life" and have been ever so side tracked... so I am now going to write one mass update to catch you all up. I appreciate you all leaving lots of thoughts about Jude giving up his Binkie. There were many great ideas and we are trying them out to see what might work

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Ever let your sweet nine year old stay up really late at night... cuddle on the couch and eat ice cream while watching a girly movie with you... only to realize the next day when she is having a major meltdown about brushing her hair that the extra late night of bonding was a really bad idea. I live to tell. Now she lays on her top bunk having a mid day "mom encouraged" siesta (aka... go to

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We are having a serious problem. Jude will not give up his binky.Its pretty mortifying to admit that my 2.5 year old still has a binky. Not that he's the only child who is 2.5 to still have a binky. But he is my 14th child. By the time you have 14 children you should have that "weaning" thing down pat. Not so much. I am sucker. (As is Jude apparently.) I raise many strong willed children but

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Izzy Boo I can't believe that your already five and a half months old. Slow down time, your going far too fast! You are talking up a storm these days. And laughing all the time. Your favorite things are nursing and playing in your exersaucer. And of course putting EVERYTHING in your mouth. You have started pulling hair and grabbing at everything you can. And you love to give kisses. I just

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 Sometimes its really hard to tell just truly how largethe REDWOODS really are.This might give you a better idea. If you have never visited the California Redwoodsyou really need to do so.Its never quite as impressive in pictures.But I can tell you the ooohs and aaahs wereendless from my crew. Like in this picture (above)you just can't really tell how large these trees are.(This was on the drive

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Goodbye california. It was so good to see you. It has been far too long since I have felt your sand, smelled your ocean warm air, and watched your beautiful sunsets... Even when in a parking lot. I will miss the time away with very little stress and ample family time and good quality time with my man. I am so looking forward to sleeping in my own bed, not driving in this van, seeing the dog and

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AJ most definitely has a uti. Thank heavens for my beloved doctor who was willing to call us in a prescription without seeing her and with us Being out-of-state. The last thing That we wanted to do was to spend the day at urgent care center. Not even AJ is getting slowed down by her casts. Love the beach. Love my famly. Love my ocean angel.

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Having a wonderful time with my husband and kids... I hope that you are all having a blessed fourth of july. We have spent a few nights camping in the redwoods and now are headed south to hot weather and the beach. I am feeling really good for getting all this fun family time. AJ may be getting a uti...so please keep her in your prayers. I will post more soon. I can't wait to show you all the

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Thank you for prayingfor our safe travels.(We are driving through the nightso little ones will sleep. Or at leastthat's the idea!) Thank you for the well wishes friends.Thank you for the caretakers of the house.Thanks for the neighbors for keepingan eye on the caretakers and providing backup. Thank you to my kids for all the help inthe past 24 hours getting ready to go.Thanks U-Haul for the

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 Sophie and her little friend "E"  Sophies counselor just called with a request from Soph... she wanted to know if she could come home and spent fourth of July with her family. It breaks my heart, because of course the answer is NO. But we want her here just as much as she wants to be here. And surely holidays are even more awkward for her than they are for us. It just isn't the same not

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 Over the weekend a surprise came in the mail. A special package from my out of town friend and her family for all of my children. Here are some of the pictures of the younger children opening their special surprises! Izzy loves her musical giraffe. See the little boo-boo on her forehead? That's from Jude "fwapping" her in the head with a toy on her exersaucer. We have spent days watching this

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I have only a few minutes before I need to get to bed. Its an early morning start tomorrow for appointments out of town for both Grace and AJ. The sweet baby boy with SB who I posted about below SHOULD have his family soon. There were MANY inquiries and several families (five I think?) submitted home studies to adopt him. I can't wait to see who his family is because there are so many lovely

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2 day old Caucasian baby boy born with Spina Bifida needs a family ASAP- domestic home study approved Must be ready to travel soon as he will be out of the hospital within the week Healthy other than the SB and club feet adoption fees are VERY low and at cost email me for more information: sisters3designs@aol.com

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AJ at her graduation with her "casts" Sometimes I wonder how to say thank you. I am not used to asking for help. And I don't really like to. I think this is because we have taken on so much as a family and sometimes it feels like in asking for help we might be judged for taking on so much and not being able to keep up. Last week was a long week with so many family members sick, especially the

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AJ and her friend Sammy Jude is now home from the hospital. He is on lots of steroids and other meds and is GROUCHY. Jude typically can be a very demanding 2 year old, now he is an extra specially demanding 2 year old! (Can anyone say Roid Rage?) This does make me feel better though (even though he gives me a headache with his demands)- because I know he must be feeling better or else he

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So... yesterday was the fact finding hearing for S's dependency with DSHS. I actually drove S. to the hearing which was a bit strange- but OK. My husbands attorney wasn't able to be there because of a serious family emergency. Her twin baby girls were born SERIOUSLY premature (both under 2 lbs) over the weekend. So please keep her, her partner and the newborns in your prayers! So since she wasn't

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Its been a la la la long week.I can hardly breathe.Jude seriously can hardly breathe.And we are leaving in a few moments to take him to the ER.(Pneumonia? possibly... poor buddy.) Court today for Sophie- update soon.Izzy is sick too.Pray for Jude and for us all.More soon.

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 Sweet IsabellaYour four months and one week old nowand you are nothing short of amazingThe way that you concentrate so hard whentrying to push yourself upand the way that you can roll from back to frontbut not front to backand how determined you are tonot spend too much time on your tummy(you hate tummy time)Your happiest when being held and when your nursing sometimes mid feeding youcan't keep

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 Hey HoneyPlease don't let her steal your spirit awayplease learn to RAI (Rise Above It) Do not let her take one more moment awayof your life, or your joy, or of your love ofyour other children. You need to find a way to find that comfortable place back in this family...even when things feel so off. We are so blessed by this beautiful new lifeand have spent the past four months of her

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I wish that I could find a way to find more balance in my brain this week. Mid week I had a visit with S. and a meeting at Children's Services with the attorneys to try to come up with a short and long term plan for helping S. I admit that I experienced an extreme amount of anxiety about the visit with S. and not much about the meeting. Really you should be feeling MORE anxiety about that type

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 These two boys (Dominick 12 and Isaac 5) are two peas in a pod. They love playing soccer together. And sneaking out into the playroom when its time to do chores to wrestle around. (We have a rule of no wrestling allowed at our house...but that rule doesn't seem to stop them!)  Isaac has even picked up on Dominick's "face" he makes me when he gets into trouble. Their mannerisms are the same

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Its going to be a sunny Sun Day and for me thats just enough to make me smile. Who needs anything more than family and sunshine to be the perfect day.We have one grocery store run to make and plenty of vegetable plants to get planted and some yard work to do... a promise of walk later and playing outside...new sand for the sandbox and travel plans being dreamed up and talked about. I am afraid at

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So srsly. The past 24 hours have been just a whirlwind. Why does the doctors office always call with bad news on court days? Don't they read my blog? Srsly. Anyhow.... yesterday morning I got the news that I need to get a cervical biopsy. I am showing some cancerous cells and they need to see if they are OK or in need of removal, or what exactly is going on. When I had gone to the doctor a few

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Quick post + Drama please pray court today doctor called- I need a cervical biopsy lost health coverage after Izzy was born lots on my mind just walking through the steps today to keep it all together enough already, ok God?

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(photo credit) An important message arrived in the mail yesterday.Right when the anxiety was building and the thoughts of the week with court lay ahead.A rock with the words engraved"I am not alone"A simple reminder to hold my head high.And not feel so alone.It meant the world to me.Thanks friend.I love youand appreciateall that you doalways.Especially when you have your ownBIG piece of the sky

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 As the drama days have gone by...there are so many things that I missed blogging about.Thankfully I have my cell phone pictures to remind me. This picture of Izzy totally looks likemy husband, what do you think? :) We have been completely slacking witheye patching for AJ. She hates it.Its hard to remember to do thingsthat your child hates.Note to self: Its for the best.Get on the ball Mom. How

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Right this minute ECOMOM is doing the twitter party fundraiser for the families who were finalists in the Home Makeover contest... including OUR family! whoohooo! They are trying to help us raise $2500 to build a handicapped accessible ramp (eco materials) onto our home which would give Jude and Angeline the Independence they deserve and also help my achy back! :) Would you please consider

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The last 24 hours have been really exhausting. They have involved paperwork, family stuff, phone calls, court hearings, attorneys and treats. Ice cream. Sorbet. And Gelato. Definitely a record 24 hours in the treats department. I requested a continuance at court. The hearing today was a "shelter care" hearing. Which basically determines if Sophie should stay in foster care until the fact

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The early morning meeting went well. We had a good mediator that seemed to help move things along in the right direction. It took a long time, a lot longer than I thought it would. David came along to "represent" for the kids and also to speak out on his sisters behalf how much we all want Sophie to get the help that she needs. My sister came and my Mom was on the phone. It was nice to have their

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Hey Sophie Mo, If I knew then what I know now... I wouldn't have wasted any of the moments with you when you were younger. I wouldn't have worried so much about things like bedtime and cleaning and grades and nutrition. I would have worried more about just living and being in the moment with you, the moments before things went tragically downhill at a fast pace. I would have seen more of the

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(Please note this post was from yesterday but because Blogger was down...its a bit late!) Oh my. This is why people disrupt their adoptions. Because they are backed into a corner and there is not any help for their child and they know the consequences if they bring them home... that they are going to hurt the other children and the family. Basically the dependency was approved by the

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